A relative of mine when he last asked a girl to go out with him asked, "Would you mind having lunch with me?"   The attitude he is projecting is "I am a worthless person and no one would have lunch with me unless they were doing me a big favor." Unless a girl has a driving desire to do you a big favor groveling for dates is unlikely to be successful.

   Women look up to men who have pride in themselves.  Women are attracted to men they look up to.  No one looks up to someone who grovels.


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