When we socialize with the opposite sex our success partly depends on what our mind is focussed on.  If one's mind is focussing on fear of not making a good impression one will probably not make a good impression.  If one's mind is focussed on "I want to get intimate with her or him" when one has just met someone that is unlikely to make a good impression either.  Initially we are probably better off focussing on the topic of conversation that the other person would like to talk about.  If one is on a date, focussing on trying to make the other person enjoy the date is much more likely to lead to a successful date than focussing on worrying about what to say or how one will come across. 


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