Ending Relationships

    I have been in a relationship for over a year with a lovely person and have felt increasing pressure to make a decision either to marry her or to end it and let her go free to find someone else to marry.  I like this person and I would like to continue having her in my life.  Although I may have the obligation to end the relationship with her it is very difficult to do.  Everytime she calls and I hear her affectionate voice telling me she loves me I don't have the heart to tell her to stop calling.  That would be cruel.  Yet I'm told that I'm cruel not to end it.  I'm told that I have an obligation to either marry her or cut off all contact with her so that she will find someone else.  I'm told the cruelest thing to do is to string her along.



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